Reflections: Pam (Godsell) Milczarski

Pam Milczarski

We invite Dehonians, co-workers and other collaborators in SCJ ministry to share their personal reflections regarding the impact of the coronavirus (COVID-19) in their lives and their communities. The following is from Pam Milczarski, Major Gifts Manager for the Province Development Office.

During this health crisis, I am often asked, “How are you?”  “How is this affecting you?”  My reply is almost always the same, “I am fine. How are you?”

What has changed for me during this health crisis?

So much, my day to day interactions with my fellow office staff, travel to visit our donors and to my family have been curtailed.  The inability to go where I want when I want halts me daily when I think about going to the store or anywhere.

What hasn’t changed for me during this health crisis?

My faith, period.  I know that these uncertain times are affecting people in more ways than we know. What I do know is that while I am working from home, reaching out to our donors, my family and friends via phone calls, emails and social media, that is most important.  Letting others know that we are thinking of them, praying for them, the response is a positive one, sometimes a tearful one but always ending in a prayer.

Keeping positive and prayer is what we must continue to do and if not for own sake, for those who suffer from loneliness, depression and children who can’t understand the impact.  Offer prayers, offer hope even when you are feeling hopeless.

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